The C-word

by Dr. Lara Fernandez on October 11, 2011

Yes, I’m talking about the C-word today. A lot of people cringe when they hear this word. Some actually get a gut reaction and run away when it’s mentioned. But it has to be addressed- or you’ll NEVER find your true love and live your best life.

The C-word I’m talking about is Commitment.

Stay with me now. Breathe. How committed are you to attracting your soulmate? Is your commitment level on the lower side, kind of “finding my soulmate would be nice”, but there’s no energy behind it?

Or, are you SAYING that you’re 100% committed, but there’s no real-world consistent action to do the inner work necessary to become a magnet for soulmate love and the life of your dreams? I want to be clear here: you MUST be doing actions to tell the Universe that you are serious! And by actions, I do NOT mean dating a hundred guys to find your prince. That’s such an old, outdated and dusty paradigm and needs to be put up on the shelf where it belongs.

Since the Universe will only match you at the level of your commitment, to attract someone better and more amazing than ever before, you’ll have to DO SOMETHING better and more amazing than ever before!!! You’ll need to catapult yourself out of any apathy or cynicism or hopelessness or resistance you may feel and get OUT of your comfort zone!

Here’s a few tips to help you get started:

1. Look around in your life, ask yourself what other areas are you not being committed. Is there a class you’ve been wanting to take, an exercise or cleanse program you’ve been wanting to do but have been putting off? Start here. Start by building your “commitment muscle” NOW. That way, the Universe will see your commitment and respond with MIRACLES. Yes, I said it. MIRACLES. I know because when I live from this place of commitment, magic is afoot and beautiful “coincidences” happen that are life-changing!

2. Look for opportunities that push you out of your comfort zone and TAKE THEM. As the saying goes, “Life begins at the end of your comfort zone”. An example of pushing yourself? Here’s one. Join us at our NEW Love Breakthrough Weekend, coming up December 3-4. Taking the step of showing up to a live weekend event where you are telling the world that you are ready to DO something about your love life- now THAT can be uncomfortable for some folks. But at one point, you DO have to stop being so private about the fact that you need support and mentoring to attract what you want in life. You do that in your business or career or health areas of life- why not love?

3. Realize that finding your soulmate is really all about YOU. Your mindset, your thoughts, your feelings and YOUR ACTIONS. If you are or if you have been attracting non-committal or non-available men, then you must understand that they are a mirror for YOUR MAGNETIC VIBRATION that you are giving off. So what to do about that?

Grow yourself first, all else follows. Do the inner work to release your unconscious blocks to love and to living a beautiful life. Find a mentor who has manifested their soulmate and learn from them. The more you invest time, energy and money in yourself, the higher your vibration grows and you become an attractor for an amazing life and you will become a have-it-all woman! Go for it! Your desires and your dreams matter!I hope this C-word article hasn’t shocked you too much and most importantly, I hope it’s helpful to you.

With love and light,

Lara

6 Responses to “The C-word”

  1. Carol says:

    I loved your quote “Life begins at the end of your comfort zone”

  2. Carol says:

    Thanks for the news letters.

  3. Carol says:

    Good information!!!!!!!

  4. LOALoveCoach says:

    Hi Lara,

    Love this post. It reminds me of the times when I need to remind single women of one itty bitty inconvenient detail in their manifestation blueprint.

    Nearly all of my clients list “emotionally available” as a top priority on their Soul Mate List. When I hear this, I alway say, “There is one problem with that, you know.”

    They are shocked and ask, “What?”

    To be with an emotionally open man, you need to be an emotionally available person yourself. That is the project, isn’ it, after all. That is why I love what you guys do.

    Creating space to hold love from the inside out is the only way to finally vibrate your own true note. Then your best match must find you.

    Hugs!
    Catherine

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