Our definition of soulmate love

by Dr. Lara Fernandez on June 24, 2014

We had such a great weekend! And now we’re taking a few days off after delivering our advanced program (LoveLaunch Program) weekend workshop. What a blessing it is to support women to embrace their inner soulmate, release the barriers to love, and to create the life of their dreams! We also shared them our exclusive Free Your Heart System, the empowering way for women to navigate the “relationship exploration dance” (also known as dating), with ease and grace and self-respect.

In this week’s article, I share with you our definition of soulmate love and how that applies to you. I hope you enjoy it and get value out of it.

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ID 100132872 300x199 Our definition of soulmate loveJohnny and I have been helping people magnetize their soulmate (officially and unofficially) for a little over 9 years now…and one question just keeps coming up over and over again. Today, I’m going to answer it once and for all:

What’s a Soulmate?

There are many different definitions of soulmates, just as there are many different definitions of the term “success”, which means something different to different people.

The term soulmate, the way Johnny and I define it in the context of our life and in our programs and telecourses and live events, is essentially this:

1. Your soulmate is available to you and wants to walk down life’s path together with you for the rest of your lives.

2. Your soulmate wants the same type of relationship as you do.

3. He/She shares the same values and ideals as you do.

4. His/her life goals are compatible with yours.

ID 10034212 300x245 Our definition of soulmate love5. There is a “simpatico” feeling about the relationship… an ease and a comfort that is almost unparalleled in your history of relationships. There is so much healing that happens as a result of the relationship with this person. True soulmates are always growing and expanding because that is what your soul always wants to do – grow, expand, express more fully and more freely… as opposed to ego-mates, where there is unconscious commitment to everything staying the same and being in a fixed mindset.

Too often people get caught up in the definition, so much so that they don’t allow their hearts to get into alignment with what it actually is. The real question is not how WE define soulmate love, but how YOU do, and what exactly are you doing in order to experience it in your life.

So, tell me, what feels empowering or even a relief to you about that definition we offer you above? I’d love to hear from you, and as always, I read them all and do my best to reply to all comments.

5 Responses to “Our definition of soulmate love”

  1. Liz says:

    Thank You Lara,

    That was a fabulous explanation on what a Soul Mate is! This has always been what I feel is true for me however I never had any dialogue with someone to share these same views until now.

    My higher self after a deep prayer with source guided me to you and Johnny and I am forever grateful. I have listened to the online classes on calling in the one and they are very powerful indeed! I feel that meeting a love coach in person and being able to see a life example is even more powerful for me so this is why I enjoy The Love Launch Program.

    At this time in my life I am taking this course as though my life depends on this and anything else is secondary. I feel that by honouring this truth for myself will bring a loving authentic example to my little girls to follow on their path to live too!

    Infinite Love and Gratitude for sharing you path to love with us Lara!



    • Dr. Lara Fernandez says:

      Thank you, Liz! Sending you love and light and I’m so excited to be supporting you on this journey in the LoveLaunch Program. Here’s to LOVE!

  2. Julia says:

    Hi Lara,
    Thank you so much for this definition! All of it seems clear and in alignment with what my higher self wants for me! Sometimes I can hear my ego saying things like ‘well, if he’s not exactly free, or if I have to convince him a little bit, it will be ok’ and I see my ego wanting things to stay the same! I can hear this as self sabotage now!!! So, thank you sooo much!!!!
    Julia xo

  3. Maria says:

    Dear Lara,

    Thank you for this beautiful article. I can get the “simpatico” feeling as well as the healing that happens when you are with a Soul Mate, I can feel it. It gives me a sense of relief to know that another wonderful heart is understanding, a safe haven, knowing what it took to get to that place – I can imagine it.

    Thank you for sharing these kind, gentle and comforting words.

    With love,


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