If you’ve been looking for love in all the wrong places (literally and figuratively) and haven’t found it yet, there may be something going on in your mind that’s blocking Love from coming to you. You see, love is your natural state. It’s your birthright. If you’re wanting it, and it’s not coming to you, you may have a Love Blocking Belief or two or three that’s keeping true love away from you. As the saying goes, “your beliefs create your circumstances”… so let’s start looking at the first of top 3 Love Blocking Beliefs right now (and I’ll continue with the next two over the next two weeks).
Love Blocking Belief #1: I just haven’t gotten lucky yet.
If this is you, you think that finding true love is simply a matter of luck. The problem is, if this is your belief, then you are giving your power away by essentially saying you don’t have any say whatsoever in whether or not you will find the love of your life… that it’s simply up to the winds of fate. This belief does not serve you, honey.
What you need to know is that yes, some people have gotten “lucky” and found love without any obvious effort… but those people are wayyyy few and far between.
Relying on luck in love is like buying a lottery ticket as your retirement plan. You want to be conscious and intentional about this very important part of your life.
One of my favorite sayings is: The harder I work, the “luckier” I get. When it comes to attracting love, maybe I wouldn’t call it hard work, but I sure would call it intentional and focused.
The partnered/married men we interviewed in the Men of Quality Do Exist videos, had something eye-opening about being consciously and intentionally attracted to their sweetheart. You don’t want to miss that!
So…relying on luck? – is this a belief that you’ve been holding? Are you willing to start letting it go and do something different? Please comment below. I’d love to hear from you HERE and I do my best to respond to every comment.
Until next week…
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The concept that one might have a hidden belief that keeps us single when we say we want our soul-mate is brilliant psychology. And it’s me!
How do I know? because I am chronically single, happily single when I am, and not aware of having any other belief than: “I Want THE ONE for ME!”
I have not ‘done everything’ to find him because I love men and I attract men. After every relationship there’s a period of rest, then another great love. I never deeply looked at my non-commital attitudes until taking your HB2HO course.
The contradiction between my stated desire and reality are proof enough that the said belief has made its nest deep inside without my expressed awareness. It’s cemented in, at this point. But I have a pick and ax, if you know what I mean, and am going for it.
Thank you, Lara, for another nugget, probably the prime obsctacle to my love life and life-life so far.
Constance
Constance,
You are very welcome. I love the idea of a pick and ax… and that you’re going for it. Are you going to the Love Breakthrough Weekend in April or May? I’m looking forward to meeting and hugging you in person. It’s been really great to see you shine in the Heartbreak to Heart Open TeleCourse.
Much love and respect,
Lara
I used to think that, but I not anymore. By reading many of your articles, my eyes opened up and I can see things more clearly now. Of course, I do hold other limiting beliefs about love (unfortunately!!!!), but I feel that I am on the right track. The only think that is makeing me sad, is that the ”healing” takes a lot of time to happen (many years in my case ) and I sometimes tend to be desperate, whicxh I know isn*t a good feeling ….
The thing is your articles are very inspiring and helpful!!!!!
Alina,
I’m really happy that my articles are helping you get on the right track. I do hope you’ve signed up to receive our free video series, Men of Quality Do Exist. There’s LOTS of learning in there for you! Here’s the link, just in case: http://www.menofqualitydoexist.com
Wishing you all the best in life and love,
Lara