It’s no coincidence that fall happens to be the favorite holiday of so many. Fall is beautiful, crisp, and a great time to re-connect and reach inside yourself. Now that the playful, carefree days of summer are over, it’s time to reflect and begin anew. Learn new information and create a new plan; a plan to live the life of your dreams with your soul mate! You can start this process right away and my tips this week will help you start going in the right direction.
1. Clean House
I mean this literally, not necessarily figuratively. A clean house allows for a clean mind, body, and soul. Clutter in your surroundings causes clutter in your mind, making it hard to consciously feel your best about yourself (a must to attract love). Once it’s sparkling clean, do your best to make it cozy and comfy. Add some fall touches, put some beautiful orange and yellow flowers in vases all over the house, bring out your favorite warm candles, and light the fire if you have a fireplace. Bake something, do some crafts, and just relish in the season that was made for decompressing your mind, body and spirit.
It’s the season to go inwards and to rest up after all of that summer high energy and travels.
Getting back to cleaning house figuratively, do this too if need be. Let go of the mess in areas of your life that weighs you down. Toxic relationships? Regrets? Grudges? Anything in your life that causes nothing but clutter figuratively needs to go - this will help. Consider this a fall cleaning for your mental health.
Action: What specific action will you take to clean house this week? It doesn’t have to take hours to start. Share in the comments below!
Since the weather is starting to turn a bit colder at this time, people tend to stay at home more. While I understand not wanting to leave your newly cleaned and cozy house, you need to get out and connect with people also. Enjoying your time at home TOO much could lead to cabin fever. Spend some time with your favorite people. Go to a farmers market, attend fall festivals, or check out the local pumpkin patch. Whatever you do, just get involved in the community events. Community building is very important as it gives you a sense of belonging and identity. It’s an important part of learning and growing, which is why all our courses emphasize the community aspect. You can begin that right now.
Action: What specific action will you take to reconnect with others this week? Who will you reach out to? Where will you go? Share with me, I’d love to hear about it.
Commit to learn something new. Expand your mind. Read a new book, preferably in a subject or setting you know little about. Watch our free 4 part video series that’s available for a limited time (for real!). Commit to watching all 4 videos and taking notes, no matter how busy you say your are. If you’re too busy to do this, you’re too busy to fit in a man. Expand and create the space NOW for real love. This will stretch you as a person and allows growth. If you’re interested in truly growing immensely, take a class in something you are deeply interested in, or even in an area that you previously assumed that you’d dislike. For example, love great pictures but feel like “photography” classes will be boring, too technical, or just not fun? Take a class on it to gain a new appreciation and new knowledge! Who knows? Maybe it will become a new passion once you learn a little more.
To take this one step further, take on learning a new skill! Learn how to speak another language, or the art of making jewelry. Of course, you can always do what I did and become a student of love, a student of how to really attract true love. We’re big on that one.
ACTION: How are you expanding yourself past your comfort zone right now? I’d love to hear from you what you’re going to do.
4. To-Do List: DONE!
Okay, admit it. We all have that one thing on our to-do list that keeps getting transferred to our new to-do lists because we keep putting it off. While we finish everything else on our list, we just never quite have enough time for that one. Months later, it still isn’t done, is it? Finish it this fall! It will give you an immense sense of completion and peace. It seems small, but it really is important. You feel guilty every time your mind goes to that task, yet you never “get to it”. Really, you never make time to get to it because you don’t want to. Bite the bullet and get to it! Start small and build up to handling more of it. Be gentle with yourself.
Clearing some mental clutter off your list will free up your energy to be more open and available to living your best life now… BEFORE finding The One, the man of your dreams. That’s the whole point, really: to live the life of your dreams first… then with your soulmate by your side. He’ll be happy to be by your side if you’re happy with YOU.
ACTION: Commit to clearing up that to-do list this week. Let me know what you’re going to do and how it feels.
Please share with me some or all of the ACTIONS you’ll take right away to become more open and available to love. I love to hear from you and I do my best to respond to every comment.
Make this fall your best fall ever and head into the sleepy months of winter a better, more complete you! Have a GREAT week!
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