The Top 10 Reasons Being With Your Soulmate Is So Awesome

by Dr. Lara Fernandez on October 14, 2014

We had such a beautiful weekend! Saturday night, we went out with our Advanced Program client and her new husband for a double date to talk all things love and marriage. What an honor and a blessing to witness their love and respect for one another. Every time we go out to dinner with a client and her husband or fiance, or officiate a wedding, or receive an email about another soulmate love connection, or attend the baby shower of one of our clients, I am strongly reminded of our mission to empower women through their relationships.

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Here’s to LOVE in your life, dear lady. Enjoy this week’s article.


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johnnlara The Top 10 Reasons Being With Your Soulmate Is So AwesomeThis week, I decided to share with you why I love being with my soulmate, why it just rocks. There’s no better feeling in the world than being loved for who I REALLY am, for ME. When I met my beloved, Johnny, I felt (and still feel) feel fully seen, heard, and respected… more than I’ve ever experienced in my life. My intent in writing this article is not only to gush about my beloved, but to give you HOPE, to help you get and stay excited on your journey to love, to get into the “feeling space” of being with your soulmate… and most importantly, to convey the message that if I can do this, if I can have this, SO CAN YOU.

  1. Somebody who really gets you and your funky quirks and loves you not only in spite of them, but perhaps BECAUSE of them…
  2. You know he’s totally got your back, no matter what type of shizzle hits the fan
  3. Making babies with the love of your life (if you want that) is one of life’s greatest joys
  4. When you’re with the RIGHT man for you, you totally and completely and finally GET why it never worked out with anybody else before
  5. Planning your life with your soulmate by your side rocks. I always wanted that man who would hold my hand joyfully while we picked out patio furniture. That’s just as exciting and actually MORE heartwarming to me as going out for a glamorous night out on the town!
  6. The RIGHT man, a healthy man… LOVES it when you take good care of yourself. It’s actually a turn on when you keep your self care up. He knows – and believes in – the old adage, “A happy wife = a happy life”.
  7. He WANTS to do things for you. When you communicate your appreciation clearly and honestly to him for the things he does, he will want to do more and more! I really appreciate it when Johnny replaces the light bulbs in the house and the batteries in our smoke alarms. I love it (and I show my appreciation) because he takes his role as safety manager of our home and family seriously. So hot!
  8. When challenges in life happen… and they WILL, even with your soulmate, the RIGHT man for you will not duck and cover. His character will shine through and he will “stand in the center of the fire with you and NOT SHRINK BACK”. Johnny and I have faced down so many challenges together: financial, health, and family drama and more over our 14 years together. And it’s made us stronger and helped us to really embrace our relationship as a spiritual practice. Truly, our lives together just keep getting better and better!
  9. Waking up each morning to the man who adores you is one of the best feelings in the world. You feel at ease, loved and loving and love-able.
  10. When you meet him, you may not recognize him instantly (no matter what the fairy tales or romcoms say), but when you know, YOU’LL KNOW because this will be unlike any other relationship you’ve had before in your life. It stands apart so much from anything you have experienced that it becomes obvious fairly soon what is happening.

love 316640 640 The Top 10 Reasons Being With Your Soulmate Is So AwesomeAs I wrote this Top 10 list, I got all mushy inside… all mushy with gratitude that I did whatever it took to consciously and intentionally draw him to me. I’d love to hear your comments on this article. I love to hear from you, so please share your thoughts below and I will get back to you as soon as I can.

Have a blessed week!


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